I'm a single father of a teenage boy, which limits my availability sometimes since I am not, and can not, be out at this point in my life. But he is becoming independent and in a year will fly the coop.

I'm a straight forward, no nonsense kind of guy. At 61 years old, it's time to experience my sexuality unbound. I am primarily a bottom, very sensual and I like to wear panties and lingerie when playing, but that's not a strict reuirement.

One strict requirement is no smoking, anything at all.

Interests include cars, travel, politics (I'm left leaning and despise Trump and his entire corrupt administration), foreign movies, literature, sushi, etc. Big fan of dogs - to paraphrase Ogden Nash, "Dogs are some of the nicest people I know."

I'm from the East Coast, stuck in northern California for now.